Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man
Steve Harvey · 2009
Comedian-turned-relationship-coach Steve Harvey pulls back the curtain on how men really think, giving women a candid playbook for spotting players, setting standards, and steering a relationship toward genuine commitment. The book is built in three parts: the mind-set of a man, why men do what they do, and a practical playbook for women.
Massively popular, candid dating-advice bestseller aimed at women navigating men and commitment.
Three of the ideas you’ll keep
The Clif summary of Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man pulls out 7 insights. Here are the first three.
- Understand the three things that drive a man's identity, who he is, what he does, and how much he makes, because a man who hasn't 'arrived' rarely settles down, no matter how much he likes you.
- Recognize a man's love through his actions, not his words: real commitment shows up as the three Ps, he professes you publicly, provides for you, and protects you.
- Decide whether you're a 'sports fish' or a 'keeper.' Men instantly read your standards; a keeper commands respect by how she carries herself rather than demanding it, and that's what sets you apart from disposable.
The other 4 — and the full 10-minute summary — are in the app.
What’s inside: 9 chapters
The whole summary runs about 10 minutes, read or listened to.
- The Mind-Set of a Man: Who, What, and How Much
- Men Love Differently: The Three Ps
- The Three Things Every Man Needs
- Sports Fish vs. Keepers: Why Standards Decide Everything
- Why Men Cheat, Mama's Boys, and Reading His Type
- Strong, Independent: and Lonely
- The Five Questions Every Woman Should Ask
- The Ninety-Day Rule: Make Him Earn It
- Closing the Deal: Standards, Kids, and the Ring
Finish Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man tonight.
Read or listen to the full summary in about 10 minutes, then keep the ideas with a minute of review a day. Start with the 2-minute quiz — no card required.